While there’s an obvious upside for you to speeding up his orgasms during oral, e.g., less wear and tear on your face, there are two big upsides for him: you’re gonna get him there faster by making blowjobs more intensely pleasurable for him, and he’s gonna get more of those more intensely pleasurable blowjobs once they’re less physically taxing for you. You need to be able to talk honestly with your partner about sex in general, STIFFED, and it’s particularly important that you’re able to freely give him feedback when sex is physically uncomfortable. Figuring out what you can do to get him there a little faster without making him feel rushed is something you should be able to talk about. He has amazing stamina, right? And while that stamina is great during PIV (you always come first), it’s a challenge when you blow him. You don’t frame it as a problem (“You take too long!”). Keep gently pressing on his prostate as his orgasm approaches and you should feel it harden, swell, and contract.īut you’re gonna need to get your boyfriend’s consent before sticking a finger in his ass, STIFFED, which means you’re gonna have to talk to him about trying this-and I think you should level with him about why you wanna try it. Slip a finger in his ass, make a gentle “come here” motion with your finger, and you’ll be hitting that button. If you’re facing your boyfriend-which you would be while blowing him-his prostate is on the same side of his body that you are. The prostate is a walnut-shaped gland that produces seminal fluid it’s located inside and up a man’s bum. While this button isn’t hard to find, STIFFED, you can’t see it with the naked eye… because it’s inside a guy’s ass. It’s doesn’t work on all men, sadly, but for many men a little pressure on this button can speed up an approaching orgasm considerably. I have some good news: there is a button. Sex Tips Inducing Faster Finish Easing Discomfort Over the years of our relationship, I haven’t found a trick that gives me the power to make it faster. I know how good it is to receive oral sex without thinking about having to rush my own orgasm and I don’t want to make him feel rushed. I don’t want to talk with him about this because I don’t want to make him self-conscious. Sometimes I say no to giving him a blowjob because I know the effort it will take. But during oral sex, it is harder to wait.
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I usually come first but it’s not a problem to wait for him to finish. My partner is “slower” to come than other men I’ve been with.
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I like doing them, but after some time my mouth begins to hurt and I’d like him to finish.
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Or rather a way to make my boyfriend come faster from them. I’m a European heterosexual girl and reading your column from afar has been a good way for me to better know the sex world! I am wondering if you have advice for me about a “faster” way to do blowjobs.